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Knowing we are making a valuable contribution to our community creates a sense of hamony in our lives.
As we approach the end of the year, it’s natural to reflect on all the goals you set and the ones still looming on your to-do list. For many of us, this reflection sparks a relentless urge to push harder, striving for more right up until the clock strikes midnight on December 31st. But what if this year, instead of striving, you paused to celebrate how far you’ve come?
Setting high standards for yourself can drive you forward, but when those standards become unrelenting, they can feel more like a trap than a tool for success. People with unrelenting standards hold themselves to expectations they would never impose on others. They keep pushing for more, often without a clear idea of what “more” looks like, and whenever they reach a goal, they simply raise the bar again. It’s a cycle that leads to constant striving without a sense of completion or satisfaction.
Perfectionism often wears a disguise. It’s praised as a driver of high performance, but beneath the surface, it can lead to more harm than good. Research shows that while some forms of perfectionism, particularly those focused on personal standards, can push us towards excellence, the self-critical side of perfectionism is a different story.
Disconnecting isn’t about abandoning responsibilities; it’s about finding the right strategies to ensure both areas of your life get the attention they deserve—without overwhelming you. Here’s how to create that balance and reclaim your mental space.
We’ve all been there: it’s Sunday evening, and instead of feeling relaxed, a sense of dread starts creeping in. You’re already worrying about Monday morning, the mountain of tasks waiting for you, and the stress of the upcoming week. This is often called “Sunday night anxiety,” and it’s more common than you might think. But the good news is, with a few simple strategies, you can turn that anxiety into a feeling of readiness and calm.
Respecting where you are and where you want to be is crucial for personal growth. As a coach, I’ve seen how this respect not only acknowledges our differences but also empowers us to thrive together.
In my latest blog post, I explore why respect goes beyond tolerance in fostering meaningful connections and achieving your goals. Who do you most respect in your life, and why? Let’s discuss how embracing respect can transform your journey.
Discover insights on how respect cultivates an environment where diversity thrives and how it can positively impact your personal and professional life. Read the full blog for practical tips and inspiration!
Discover the transformative impact of community contribution! It’s a powerful tool for personal development, improving lives and strengthening bonds. Engaging in community activities with family or friends creates shared memories and teaches valuable lessons for our personal and professional growth. This blog explores how giving your time and skills can transform both your life and the lives of those around you.
In the hustle and bustle of the professional world, amidst deadlines, goals, and meetings, it’s easy to lose sight of the simple yet profound practice of gratitude. As a coach, I’ve witnessed firsthand the transformative power of gratitude in shaping the individual mindsets of my clients and my own. In this blog, we delve into …
Last time, we delved into the importance of reflecting on what truly matters to you in life. Did you have any surprising revelations? For me, gaining that self-awareness was a game-changer. It gave me a starting point—a roadmap of sorts—to begin my journey towards regaining harmony. Now, armed with your insights, it’s time to take …
Do you ever find yourself at the end of a long day, sinking into the quiet of the evening with a cuppa in hand, just breathing in the moment? Or maybe your nights lean more towards chaos, with cold tea, blaring TV, and a sigh of exhaustion as you collapse onto the couch? It’s a …
The importance of effective communication for developing and maintaining strong relationships cannot be underestimated. Being a great communicator will ensure your message is clearly received and avoid any misunderstanding. This is especially important during times of conflict or when a difference of opinion arises.
The mere mention of ‘change’ often triggers resistance or apprehension in many individuals, overlooking the potential opportunities it presents. But what if change could be embraced with less resistance and even viewed as an exciting adventure?
Have you ever stopped to notice how engaging in what you love, whether at work or in other facets of life, can be a game-changer for your mood? Passion isn’t just a trendy term; it’s a mental workout, a dynamic force that keeps the scales of your mind in harmonious balance. Your cognitive wellbeing experiences a significant boost when you’re wholeheartedly invested in what you’re doing.
Making a difference… that is what we all want to do. Isn’t it? We want to believe that our life has meaning and purpose.
In companies, we often spend time formulating a vision or mission statement for our organisations. But, have you ever thought about creating a mission statement for your life? As a professional coach, my journey involved transcending professional boundaries and creating a personal mission statement connected to my real life. The core of who I am as a coach comes from the combination of skills, knowledge and experiences I have gained.
For those who want to find the best in themselves, I encourage you to embark on the empowering journey of creating a personal mission statement. Here are some guidelines to get you started in the introspection process:
– Explore your values
– Define your goals
– Integrating Authenticity
– Express Gratitude
– Check in and Update Regularly
Read the full blog to see the breakdown of how to explore these guidelines.
As life evolves, so must your mission statement. Revisit and refine it regularly to suit your ever-changing tastes and values. Developing a personal mission statement is not a one-time effort; It’s a dynamic process that evolves with you. By defining your mission, you pave the way for a more purposeful and authentic life.
In your quest for self-discovery, consider reaching out for a conversation. I invite you to connect with me and let’s explore together how you can gain the best results in 2024!
Small changes that are implemented gradually and methodically are the most sustainable over the long term. Remember, as Confucius says, “Even a journey of 1000 miles starts with that first step.”
Wouldn’t it be incredible if every minute of our lives could be spent exactly as we desire, with the people we love? Imagine a world where everyone shares the same priorities, working towards their goals in perfect harmony. Unfortunately, the reality is far from that utopia. Life is a juggling act of competing priorities, both …
Like most of us, I’ve struggled with a number of bad habits that I’ve wanted to change. My most recent was like a ghost that only came out at night… specifically, after dinner. I’ll tell you how I got rid of this ghost in a moment. Everybody has habits: good habits, bad habits, annoying habits …
Being at the base of these stairs reminded me of the challenges we encounter when wanting to making changes in life. It can seem like making changes requires a long and difficult climb to the top and we’re often confronted with solid brick walls that hinder our progress. The start of a new year is …
It was fun capturing this scene of pandemonium as these birds jostled and competed for the food, which they considered to be a limited resource. In the same way, time is our limited resource, and we jostle our many competing priorities to fit them into the time available to us. How wonderful would life be …
The clarity of this water was breathtaking which inspired me to take this photo on a south-pacific island beach. In contrast, on the same island I came across a shiver of sharks lurking below the surface of the water. When you have certainty in your life, your mind is crystal clear. Our negative thoughts can …
When I compare my lot in life with what others around me have, I generally fall in the middle. I know people who have more of some of the things I want in life, but I also know those who have far less than me. In the past when in this comparative mood, I would often …
“Live Well, Laugh Often, Love Much”Especially Laugh Often. So here are a few fun suggestions:Play your favourite musicGo to the park and play with the kidsWatch a funny movieGo for a walk along the beach, or through the rainforestGo to the local farmers’ marketsPlay board gamesGo dancingRead the comics in the newspaperHave a date nightGo …
Time is such a precious commodity. It is time we want to spend with family and friends. We all need time to get to know our family and friends.My family and friends often seem to know what I need when I need it. They are the soft place for me to fall and also are …
